ENG480 Reflective essay# 2
(120-150 words)
"My mother was going to rent a room to a medical student, but after she looked at the student's Facebook page of drunken debauchery, she said no way," said Sandi Svoboda, 41, a writer for Metro Weekly, an alternative newspaper in Detroit.
Older users, Mr. Stutzman added, tend to prefer Facebook to MySpace, which is garish and loud -- you can have your favorite rock song blaring when you open it -- and peppered with big fat Fox ads (the site's owned by Rupert Murdoch) "and you can spam all your friends," he added. Facebook's friendlier, more intimate template resembles those freshman facebooks you studied so intently in college, or an online scrapbook for photos and messages.
Older Facebook users, however, face issues never contemplated by college students.
What if your boss "friends" you and you don't want to be her friend? How many friends are too many? Most studies say that the friends we care about most number, on average, around 10. What does that say, then, about the person with 1,000 "friends?" (Facebook draws the line at 5,000).
Most important, what to do with the friend request from someone you haven't seen in decades? It's not a problem for an 18-year old user, but an all-too-common one for the 54-year-old on Facebook.
Source: Sunday, February 01, 2009 By Mackenzie Carpenter, Pittsburgh Post-Gazette